Dating and meeting up of girls and boys freely, is a multifaceted & newly rising idea in our beloved Pakistan . Pakistan mainly comprises of Muslim people from countryside areas & old school of conservatives are from middle class society. They all hate this new concept developing in our country. Some cities of Pakistan are having people who are liberal in their approach such as Lahore in Punjab & Karachi in Sindh. On the other side, in many parts of Pakistan like KPK & Baluchistan you will locate traditions which forbid this moderation.
Couple’s dating starts & flourishes in some specific places, like colleges & universities and public parks. Love blossoms while studying mutually & finally after some years the pair might deem marriage the customary way. This means that the boy's family lastly shows up at the girl's home for the marriage proposal. This ends up in engagement & finally tying knot of marriage. Albeit there is nothing obviously erroneous with this kind of marriage pact but our religion Islam does not let mixing of men & women for the intention of just romance. Many people go up against this growing liberalism. They claim that this incident arises from the Western culture. We as Muslims ought to not follow in the footprints of the western culture & customs. Even Indian media is liable to fairly some level for promoting this idea of dating and romance through their movies and even drama which depict love, dating & other such notions frequently. They leave a deep intuition on teenagers mind.
Dating through Cell Phone
Mobile dating is transforming the social prospect in Pakistan. Because not many social opportunities are accessible to the young age group, they are adopting dating through the Mobile Phones. Mobile Phone accessibility in Pakistan is gradually upward at one of the top rates in Asia & ‘Find your True love’ is proving simpler and easier. It’s now very common to see people holding Mobile Phones in the hand even small school going kids, parents, students, teachers, young boys & girls, without any discrimination in city & town of the country. Mobile telecom corporations are also advertising it as they are launching long hour cheaper talk time packages, SMS bundle offers, free calling late nighttime offers just for few rupees. These companies are not only introducing such cheaper packages but also advertising such concepts in commercials with young girls & boys dating, talking and calling late night in these commercials.
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Concept of Online dating
Internet access in Pakistan is also more and more rising at fastest rate like Mobile Phone addiction. It is acquiring fame because of mobility problems for girls in the country. Online dating has facilitated people to take a new twist where people have the total liberty to select & to fix dates online before a romantic meet. Internet café are also playing a very important part in it as they charge a very tiny amount for the use of Internet for hours.
In a nutshell, dating in a social context, is still intolerable & immoral in our society. Companionship, and amity is may be acceptable but within limits. Religion, culture, moral ethics, traditions & social setup of our country do not allow this norm to be flourished. The acceptable move toward a successful relationship would be when the parents of both the boy & the girl are concerned and totally involved in decision making for the future of their children.
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